Meaningful Mentors

Heather Kodhelaj and Leo Abufadil share how being chosen as Bishop Scholars has opened doors to their future careers.

From left: Leo Abufadil, ACCJ Executive Director Laura Younger, and Heather Kodhelaj at the 2025 ACCJ Shinnenkai

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In her final year of high school, Heather Kodhelaj’s philosophy teacher suggested that she go into the foreign service. “I didn’t see a clear path, but my mom encouraged me to start traveling.”

Though Kodhelaj was born and raised in the United States, her parents are Albanian and immigrated in 1998. On her mother’s advice, Kodhelaj went to Europe. When she returned to Philadelphia, she caught herself falling into a rut and headed to South Korea for more international experience.

“When I came back from Korea, I was changed as a person and had fallen in love with Asia,” she explained. “My mom and I bonded over her love of a Korean drama called Crash Landing on You. It’s about a North Korean and a South Korean who fall in love despite their different cultures. Having been raised under Communism, she really identifies with the story.”

Seeing how time abroad was shaping Kodhelaj, her mother encouraged her to keep going. “When I heard about the Bishop Scholarship, she said, ‘Take a chance, the worst they can say is no.’”

Kodhelaj arrived at the American Chamber of Commerce in Japan (ACCJ) on August 22, 2024, for a five-month internship provided by the scholarship established after ACCJ leader Bill Bishop, his wife, and daughter were killed on Christmas morning in 2022. The award, established by the ACCJ and the US-Japan Bridging Foundation, brings students from the United States to study at Temple University, Japan Campus, where Bishop was a lecturer and board member.

The experience, Kodhelaj said, opened her eyes and changed the impression she had of Japanese business culture. Working on the ACCJ–Kansai D&I Summit was especially meaningful.

“The collage of 10 years of their events, seeing how everyone was so happy, talking, interacting, not a phone in sight—it was just genuine human connection. That they had done this for a decade, even through Covid … the perseverance of people was really inspiring,” she said.

Kodhelaj was also inspired by the her interactions with the Women in Business Forum, which she credits with teaching her to be more confident.

“I struggle with impostor syndrome. At the first event I helped with, I asked the executive who was speaking how to get over that feeling that you don’t belong in a room, that you’re not supposed to be there,” she recalls.

“I learned that, at the ACCJ, it’s not about your title or how much money you make, it’s what knowledge you bring to the table. And you don’t always have to have something valuable to say; listening to others is valuable as well. Now I understand that everyone belongs in the room, you always belong.”

Kodhelaj said she is grateful for the experience, the chamber, and Bishop. “I wish I could have met him. I learned that his daughter had also been an intern. That was very emotional for me. I could feel how important my role was, what it means to be an intern at the ACCJ.”

Following her internship, Kodhelaj has returned to Temple University in Philadelphia for her final semester studying global relations.

Leo Tanaka Abufadil already had ties to Japan before arriving on January 14 as a Bishop Scholar. His mother is Japanese and he attended elementary school in Amagasaki, Hyogo Prefecture, during summers despite growing up in Oklahoma.

Now a political science and international studies major at Trinity University in San Antonio, Texas, the Tulsa native said he is “fixated on the bilateral relationship between Japan and the United States.”

To pursue that interest, he applied for the US-Japan Bridging Foundation Scholarship, which he received, and the foundation then said they had another opportunity they felt he would be right for. “I was honestly very moved by the memory of Bill Bishop,” Abufadil said.

“As a Japanese American, the Bishop family’s passion for cultivating the bilateral relationship resonated with me. My goal as an intern was to propel that relationship while honoring the Bishop family’s legacy.”

Coming in, Abufadil explained, he had an idea of what the ACCJ might be like. He expected to work with economics and trade relations while improving his formal Japanese, known as keigo. 

“But it’s been so much more than that,” he said. “Not only have I been able to sharpen my keigo, I gained a new perspective on how businesses operate in Japan. Something that was really illuminating and captivating is how intertwined business and government are. Being able to sit in on a lot of external affairs meetings, I could see the direct impact US and Japanese domestic and international policies each have on the other country. I find that quite fascinating.”

Abufadil said he especially loved that his time at the ACCJ wasn’t limited to one department or one activity. “There were a myriad opportunities. It was wonderful.”

The project he said he’s most proud of is the Student Internship Portal. “To see how the other interns and I, as well as our supervisors, worked so hard on this project, and to watch it take off, feels so rewarding. I love that I was able to make a tangible impact.”

He also recalls an unexpected moment with a member of a Japanese ministry.

“He was willing to talk to me and break down financial technology—something I had never engaged with in my life. People’s willingness to explain things and put them into perspective has been amazing. It’s something I’ll take with me for the rest of my life.”